Abhanga 1188
A mother cow may wander off and leave her calf behind for a while, but the bond of love between them does not loosen just because they are apart. Tukārām uses this to describe the tie between the devotee and the divine: physical distance, absence, or separation cannot dissolve real love, because that love lives in the heart, not in proximity. If you are far from someone or something you love — a person, a practice, a place of worship — this verse says the connection still holds. Trust that love outlasts distance.
The verse
धेनु बछरा छोर जावे । प्रेम न छुटे सात ॥१॥
Literal translation
Dhēnu bachharā chōra — prēma na chuṭē sāta.
मराठी: धेनु (गाय) बछड्याला सोडून जातें — पण प्रेम सूटत नाहीं — सात (हृदयांत).
Word-by-word gloss
| Marathi/Hindi | Meaning |
|---|---|
| धेनु बछरा छोर जावे | "dhēnu bachharā chōra" |
| प्रेम न छुटे सात | "prēma na chuṭē sāta" |
What it means
Sākhyā 21 of 30. The cow-calf bond: the dhēnu may physically leave the bachharā — but prēma does not release the sāta (the bond/heart). The bhakta-Hari bond is like cow-calf prema — physical separation cannot break it.
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For someone today
A mother cow may wander off and leave her calf behind for a while, but the bond of love between them does not loosen just because they are apart. Tukārām uses this to describe the tie between the devotee and the divine: physical distance, absence, or separation cannot dissolve real love, because that love lives in the heart, not in proximity. If you are far from someone or something you love — a person, a practice, a place of worship — this verse says the connection still holds. Trust that love outlasts distance.
मराठी: गाय काही काळ आपल्या बछड्यापासून दूर जाते, पण त्यामुळे तिचे प्रेम सैल होत नाही — ते हृदयातच घट्ट राहते. तुकाराम महाराज याच प्रतिमेतून भक्त आणि परमेश्वर यांच्यातील नात्याचे वर्णन करतात — शारीरिक अंतर किंवा विरह खऱ्या प्रेमाला तोडू शकत नाही, कारण ते प्रेम जवळिकीत नसून हृदयात वसलेले असते. तुम्ही एखाद्या प्रिय व्यक्तीपासून, साधनेपासून किंवा श्रद्धास्थानापासून दूर असाल, तरीही हा अभंग सांगतो की नाते तुटलेले नाही. प्रेम अंतरापेक्षा टिकाऊ असते, यावर विश्वास ठेवा.
Where this applies
- Cow-leaves-calf. Dhēnu-bachharā-chōra.
- Prema-doesn't-release. Prēma-na-chuṭē.